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Though she has hardships in her life, a friend can be good for Pam — and have a few benefits for the player as well. Building friendships with others is a key part of Stardew Valley, and even though Pam can be gruff, taking the time to get her to warm up can be worth it. Here’s how to win her over.
Best Gifts To Give Pam
Loved Gifts
By treating Pam to a drink or one of her favorite meals, players can increase their friendship with her by 80 points. Note that any gift given to Pam on her birthday, Spring 18, will count for 8x the usual point value.
All universal loves Most alcoholic drinks: Beer, Piña Colada, Mead, Pale Ale Cooked dishes: Parsnip Soup, Glazed Yams Parsnip Cactus Fruit
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Liked Gifts
Though not as great of an increase, Liked gifts will increase the player’s friendship with Pam by 45 points. The following are all good choices, if the player doesn’t have Pam’s Loved gifts on hand.
Daffodil All fruit; e. g. blueberries, grapes, apples, strawberries All artisan goods, except for Oil and Void Mayonnaise All gemstones All flowers, except for Poppy
Disliked & Hated Gifts
If the player gives Pam a gift that she dislikes or hates, her friendship with the player will decrease. Hated gifts lead to a greater drop in points than disliked ones, but none of the below are good choices when the player is trying to gain favor with Pam.
Quartz Eggs Holly Octopus and Squid Universal Dislikes and Hates: all trash, artifacts, seeds, crafting materials, geodes, etc.
Quests
Like most of Pelican Town’s villagers, Pam will occasionally request the player’s help with one thing or another. Accepting her errands will lead to an increase in friendship.
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Pam Is Thirsty: On the 14th of Summer, Pam will send the player a letter requesting a Pale Ale. If they bring it to her, they will receive 350g and one friendship heart. Pam Needs Juice: In another letter, this time on Fall 19 in Year 2, Pam requests a battery for her TV remote. Once again, players will receive one friendship heart, as well as 400g.
Friendship Benefits & Perks
As with most villagers, Pam will occasionally send the player a gift in the mail. The higher their friendship level, the more likely she is to send an item. Her gifts include Beer, which is not very useful, but also Battery Packs and Energy Tonic, which can be incredibly beneficial.
Recipes
Once the player reaches certain friendship thresholds, Pam will send them recipes in the mail.
At three hearts, Pam will send her recipe for Cheese Cauliflower. Using the two title ingredients, players can use the dish to restore 138 Energy and 62 Health. At seven hearts, players will receive Pam’s recipe for Stuffing. With bread, cranberries, and a hazelnut, players can cook up this dish that will restore 170 Energy and 76 Health. It also buffs the player’s Defense by +2.
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